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How to Write a Love Letter in the Age of Text

Why a handwritten or longer letter still stands out, and how to write one without overthinking it.

In an age of quick texts, a real letter is a rare and special gift.

Why a letter stands out

  • It takes effort, which shows care.
  • It can be kept and reread.
  • It allows depth that a text does not.

Structure

  1. Opening: a warm greeting, using their name or a pet name.
  2. Why you are writing: a short line.
  3. What you appreciate: two or three specific things.
  4. A memory: one moment that matters to you.
  5. Looking forward: a hope or a promise.
  6. Closing: affectionate and sincere.

A short example

"Dear Maya,

I wanted to write this by hand because some things deserve more than a text. Thank you for the way you listen, and for how you make ordinary days feel special. I still remember our first walk by the river. I knew then that I wanted more of those days.

Here's to many more.

Yours, Sam"

Tips for writing

  • Write as you speak.
  • Be specific.
  • Avoid clichés you do not mean.
  • Do not worry about perfect handwriting.
  • Do not edit away your voice.

Making it special

  • Use nice paper.
  • Tuck it in a book or bag.
  • Add a pressed flower or a photo.

If writing is hard

Start with a few lines from a collection of messages or a favourite verse, then add your own sentences.

Delivering it

Hand it over in person, leave it somewhere they will find it, or post it.

Tips

  1. Start with what you appreciate.
  2. Use one memory.
  3. Keep it honest.

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